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fastasfcuk · #1 Post by **fastasfcuk** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:08 pm

it's six months today since ross was killed and with his birthday comeing up on sept 1st i've not been haveing a good time of it lately.so tomorrow i'm going to clear off for a week and have a change of scenery.were going to blue anchor bay apparently near minehead.perhaps try some scrumpy.
so i'll see you next week.
take care and be safe.

Samray · #2 Post by **Samray** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:20 pm

Make the most of your time away.

Falken · #3 Post by **Falken** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:30 pm

Have a good time Ian.
Just don't let that scrumpy erase too much brain power.

Aladinsaneuk · #4 Post by **Aladinsaneuk** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:23 pm

relax and have a good time

#5 Post by **Kwackerz** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 9:11 pm

Aye, have a good break Mate.

Falco9 · #6 Post by **Falco9** » Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:20 am

Have a good time Ian. Hope the sun shines for you

F9

HowardQ · #7 Post by **HowardQ** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 8:22 pm

Have a good break Ian, hope you have some nice weather to go with the Scrumpy!

D-Rider · #8 Post by **D-Rider** » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:09 pm

Yep - a bit of "time-out" sounds the thing.
Hope you manage some fun as well as the reflection that will obviously be a part of this time of year for you

Cheers

fastasfcuk · #9 Post by **fastasfcuk** » Fri Aug 21, 2009 10:35 pm

thanks again for your comments, this was a big step for me but we came back thursday, what cut it short was my daughter ringing me only to tell me that some low life - - -tard had robbed ross's grave of items left and ripped up the grass. one of the the things they took were two solar powered lanterns which cost nothing. it seems every time i try and pick my self up some one smacks me back down as if i'm not allowed.
sorry to keep to keep going on but it helps to vent my anger on these keys.

D-Rider · #10 Post by **D-Rider** » Fri Aug 21, 2009 11:20 pm

FFS .... I wish I could get my head round what motivates these people - I just can't comprehend it.

So sorry to hear about this Ian. Hope you can put things back right if that's what you plan to do. At least they can't touch your memories of Ross even if they mess up the physical things you've put in place to help you commemorate him.

Best wishes to you and your family as you deal with this.

Falcomille · #11 Post by **Falcomille** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 7:39 am

Ian, sorry to hear of your grief again... I, like D-R, cannot understand people who would deliberately desicrate a grave! I think it just underlines the moral low the country in now finding itself in. There is no such thing as respect, for the living or the dead. They are probably the same people who beat up old ladies and aged war heros for a few quid.
Keep your chin up Ian, don't let the bastards get to you.
Peter.

joecrx · #12 Post by **joecrx** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 9:30 am

nice to hear you getting back on track, have a good break

BikerGran · #13 Post by **BikerGran** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 4:41 pm

No worries about venting it on here - that's what friends are for, even if they are friends you've never met!

Don't let the bastards grind you down!

Falcomille · #14 Post by **Falcomille** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 5:28 pm

BikerGran wrote:No worries about venting it on here - that's what friends are for, even if they are friends you've never met!

Don't let the bastards grind you down!

Or "Nil illigitimus carborundum".. I decided to look on Wikipedia for this.. and it looks like the most correct Latin interpretation might be.. "Noli nothi permittere te terere", which doesn't work quite as well does it.

Anyhow, Ian.. Nil illigitimus carborundum.. or.. Noli nothi permittere te terere.. don't let it get to you mate

!

Samray · #15 Post by **Samray** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 5:29 pm

I know what sort of shit this can stir up again.
Don't worry about posting here, this lot can be a good substitute (or addition) to trauma counselling.