Sorry you're not gelling too quick with the Falco Rene, (You could always try hair spray!), sorry!
I reckon it took me hundreds of miles before I fully tuned in, (after years of Honda 4s) so as Mart says, stick at it.
Then again, whenever I have used the Falco on my 12mile or so commute, I am never really happy. I normally have to take the car and whenever I have used the bike, I tended to use my old CBR1000F more in the past as it handled it better, more recently I have used the ZX-9R rather than the Falco, although to be honest none of them are good on my commute.
If I had a long run on good roads it would be better I suppose, but they are all a bit "duck out of water" for me. Something like an old CB500 would probably be much better!
These days when I go out at the weekends it seems like at least 75% or maybe more car drivers are aware of bikes pretty quickly and you can see they are.
Commuting tin boxes scare me silly cos everyone is in their own world and they
never think bike. Large percentages of them in town centre traffic are on hand held phones, staring constantly at sat navs, or tucked into a full Big Mac breakfast, even seen a few using a laptop on the passenger seat.
They all scare the Sh*t out of more even more when I'm on the bike.
Stick with it and it should get better, but save the real enjoyment for the weekends.