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robbier6 · #1 Post by **robbier6** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 5:40 pm

it's been a hellish two months, i was made an orphan on the 4th of October, my mother passed away after collapsing 2 weeks before hand with a pulmonary embolism brought on after her hip op, so sad she never got to walk on level legs

then on the 7th of October one of my best friends had her dad passed away suddenly, then the very same night she tried to take her own life...i feel like I've been to hell and back, and been on the brink my self...but this weekend i move back home and life is improving so for the next few nights i'd like to stand everybody a drink.

blinkey501 · #2 Post by **blinkey501** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 5:55 pm

Sorry for your loss Robbie.

Glass of single malt please buddy

Willopotomas · #3 Post by **Willopotomas** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 7:25 pm

Life sucks. I hope in some way it gets better for you soon, bud. I'll join you for that drink, but this rounds on me.

Aladinsaneuk · #4 Post by **Aladinsaneuk** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 11:02 pm

may not help. but PM me if you want to chat things through etc

large bottle of cab sav and a straw please

Viking · #5 Post by **Viking** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 11:14 pm

'kin hell, mate. All the best to you from down here in Oz. Things will get better, but it will take time. the best advice I can give is to take one day at a time, and to know that it will get better.

And once Will's round is gone, the next one is on me.

robbier6 · #6 Post by **robbier6** » Thu Nov 20, 2014 8:49 am

thanks Will, Viking...next round is on me.

Thanks Jay, large malt it is.

Thank you Pete, i may well accept that offer cheers

Does Sam's do food? i fancy an all day breakfast

DavShill · #7 Post by **DavShill** » Thu Nov 20, 2014 11:59 am

Hi Robbie - hope things are taking a turn for the better. Think of the good memories of your mum, she was a lovely lady.

robbier6 · #8 Post by **robbier6** » Thu Nov 20, 2014 12:39 pm

Thanks Dav

HisNibbs · #9 Post by **HisNibbs** » Thu Nov 20, 2014 11:35 pm

I never know what to say for the best so sometimes don't say anything. There are many ways to see things and given time, you'll find your way forward. So allow yourself that time.

robbier6 · #10 Post by **robbier6** » Fri Nov 21, 2014 2:12 pm

Wise words indeed, as you say HN sometimes words are not needed...thank you

Just Brian · #11 Post by **Just Brian** » Sat Nov 22, 2014 7:10 pm

Sad times indeed, get them old photo's out will help you get through it all.

BikerGran · #12 Post by **BikerGran** » Sat Nov 22, 2014 7:27 pm

That's right - time may not heal but it makes things easier to deal with. I'll raise a glass with you.

slickliner6 · #13 Post by **slickliner6** » Fri Nov 28, 2014 2:06 pm

so sorry for your loss.....

Chin up mate,,,,