How the hell do you do it

First problem is I aint got a spanner big enough for the nuts at the bottome of the shock and secondly I cant see how they are supposed to undo. Also, how the hell can you torque these (as specified in the manual) as there is no way a socket will fit over the end of the shock.
It's not looking good with the falco links, as with the preload at it's maximum the rider sag is 76 with static sag 41mm

I'm hopeing that raiseing the ride height might help