Looking for a bit of advice...again.
Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 8:03 pm
Ridersite has proved to me in recent months that it has seemingly bottomless sympathy. You've shown me a lot of kindness this year and D-Rider is also being given a lot of support. I hate to ask for help again but i'm struggling to find an alternative.
So far this year has been beyond a joke. Some of what has happened i'm still not comfortable talking about. Will is the only one who will understand at this point and for the secrets i am truly sorry. What i will say is that since march i have taken a shattering blow in my personal life which thankfully at long last it seems i might recover from that was followed so soon by my loss of home and then a third incident which i will now mention.
If you recall i mentioned some time ago that i had lost my home and then that i moved into a flat. This move and my new home cost me altogether £1200 which i covered with what money i had left to hand and then with an overdraft. Understandably i anticipated living on the breadline for a couple of months while i payed back the overdraft. At this point i was about £950 overdrawn.
Two weeks after i took the flat one, D-Rider came into contact with... an entourage of people at Wasgrave hospital (I found out about that days later). They were there visiting me as i had crashed the Mille in an incident that still remains inexplicable. To my knowledge my injuries were just concussion some pulled muscles and bruised ribs. The mille has a buckled front wheel, broken indicator, broken mirror and a smashed tail light. All in all about £200 worth of damage, pretty lucky.
This isn't the worst of my problem. Caterpillar wouldn't let me return to work until i was fully fit based on the physical nature of the job and their serious view on health and safety. Despite really trying to go back and earn some money, they wouldn't let me return for the first four weeks which took me up to the factory summer shut down. All in all i've lost 6 weeks pay (about £1500)
I managed to scrape through on my first months rent with what i had left over and a little bit of money given to me by my parents (who owe me frankly seeming it was their argument that lost me my home in the first place.) My second months rent however is due in two days time and i'm short of the money. I have a contingency to cover it so i'm not here begging for money.
The issue in question is that with my lack of income, i have been forcced to ask for help from the state. This has been met with no sympathy whatsoever. Firstly, D-Rider asked me about my SSP, apparently because my employer is an agency i only receive about £40 a week, half of what seemingly anyone else receives. I tried to ask for housing benefits to cover my rent for one month. After two meetings and plenty of form filling i recieved a letter in the post telling me i earn too much to get benefit. £40 a week is too much for housing benefit? Currently i'm waiting to recieve even more forms concerning another benefit i might not qualify for.
As it stands the benefits i feel i'm owed won't help me concerning the upcoming rent payment but i have utilities and council tax to pay aswell and even if the benefits come too late they'll go a long way to keeping my head above water.
Frankly i'm disgusted that the state seems unwilling to help the honest tax payer in times of need but will happily provide housing, tax cuts, mobility allowance, housing benefit, jobseekers allowance and god knows what else to the dole dossing wasters who sit outside McDonalds day in day out smoking their life away. Aren't benefits supposed to be a short term income for people in an emergency, not a full time way of life?
Can anyone offer me any help on what to do to get some financial help for the next couple of weeks at least?
So far this year has been beyond a joke. Some of what has happened i'm still not comfortable talking about. Will is the only one who will understand at this point and for the secrets i am truly sorry. What i will say is that since march i have taken a shattering blow in my personal life which thankfully at long last it seems i might recover from that was followed so soon by my loss of home and then a third incident which i will now mention.
If you recall i mentioned some time ago that i had lost my home and then that i moved into a flat. This move and my new home cost me altogether £1200 which i covered with what money i had left to hand and then with an overdraft. Understandably i anticipated living on the breadline for a couple of months while i payed back the overdraft. At this point i was about £950 overdrawn.
Two weeks after i took the flat one, D-Rider came into contact with... an entourage of people at Wasgrave hospital (I found out about that days later). They were there visiting me as i had crashed the Mille in an incident that still remains inexplicable. To my knowledge my injuries were just concussion some pulled muscles and bruised ribs. The mille has a buckled front wheel, broken indicator, broken mirror and a smashed tail light. All in all about £200 worth of damage, pretty lucky.
This isn't the worst of my problem. Caterpillar wouldn't let me return to work until i was fully fit based on the physical nature of the job and their serious view on health and safety. Despite really trying to go back and earn some money, they wouldn't let me return for the first four weeks which took me up to the factory summer shut down. All in all i've lost 6 weeks pay (about £1500)
I managed to scrape through on my first months rent with what i had left over and a little bit of money given to me by my parents (who owe me frankly seeming it was their argument that lost me my home in the first place.) My second months rent however is due in two days time and i'm short of the money. I have a contingency to cover it so i'm not here begging for money.
The issue in question is that with my lack of income, i have been forcced to ask for help from the state. This has been met with no sympathy whatsoever. Firstly, D-Rider asked me about my SSP, apparently because my employer is an agency i only receive about £40 a week, half of what seemingly anyone else receives. I tried to ask for housing benefits to cover my rent for one month. After two meetings and plenty of form filling i recieved a letter in the post telling me i earn too much to get benefit. £40 a week is too much for housing benefit? Currently i'm waiting to recieve even more forms concerning another benefit i might not qualify for.
As it stands the benefits i feel i'm owed won't help me concerning the upcoming rent payment but i have utilities and council tax to pay aswell and even if the benefits come too late they'll go a long way to keeping my head above water.
Frankly i'm disgusted that the state seems unwilling to help the honest tax payer in times of need but will happily provide housing, tax cuts, mobility allowance, housing benefit, jobseekers allowance and god knows what else to the dole dossing wasters who sit outside McDonalds day in day out smoking their life away. Aren't benefits supposed to be a short term income for people in an emergency, not a full time way of life?
Can anyone offer me any help on what to do to get some financial help for the next couple of weeks at least?