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fastasfcuk · #31 Post by **fastasfcuk** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 7:59 am

once again thanks for taking the time to care and thank you for the pm's i've recieved.Ross and his three friends were released by the coroner yesterday after going through the agoniseing identification process on wednesday.the coroner also stated that all four died from multiple injuries instantly and that the fire was not the cause of death, i ca'nt begin to tell you what a relieve that his. we now have a date for Ross's funeral on tuesday 3rd march, which is my next stage to get through and from there the inquest and hopefully what happened, we may never know.
the support i'm getting from friends and family is invaluble and really helping me get through this and i count you as friends so thank you.

ian.

Samray · #32 Post by **Samray** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 4:41 pm

Thank you for taking the time to think of updating us, what with all you must have going on atm.
I followed the reports in your local rag and what a good looking couple of kids they are. A credit to you.

Keep your chin up mate.

TreeTops · #33 Post by **TreeTops** » Mon Feb 23, 2009 9:25 pm

Ian - I don't post on here very much anymore and I don't think I can say anything that will help other than I really feel for you.
John

fastasfcuk · #34 Post by **fastasfcuk** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 7:58 pm

tomorrow i have to get through the hardest day i'm going to face in my life and i do'nt know where i'm going to get the strengh from to do it. friends, family and kind comments from you have helped immensly, but tomorrow i'm going to say goodbye to my son Ross and then people have to get on with there live's and i'm scared of the void thats going to follow.i've allways accepted that life as to go on but now it's me. then there's the guilt of moving on. deep down i know with gods help we'll get through this and post some thing with a bit of cheer, in time.
thanks for listening.
ian.

BikerGran · #35 Post by **BikerGran** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 8:16 pm

We will be thinking of you tomorrow Ian, and we won't forget you in the tomorrows that come after that as well.

Falco9 · #36 Post by **Falco9** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 8:23 pm

I wish you every strength for tommorow Ian. I'll be thinking of you both.

Rich

Samray · #37 Post by **Samray** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 8:23 pm

Zactly wot she said.

Syltiz · #38 Post by **Syltiz** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 8:53 pm

Good luck Ian. I am sure we will all be thinking of you. As has been said before, thanks for keeping us updated.

joecrx · #39 Post by **joecrx** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 9:38 pm

all the best for tommorow ,

Falken · #40 Post by **Falken** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 9:56 pm

All the best for tomorrow Ian.
I'm sure your daughter and partner will support you and give you the strength.
Not many people will have been through or have to go through it, but all our thoughts are with you all.

Good luck.

#41 Post by **Kwackerz** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 10:36 pm

It's not 'goodbye' more 'see you later'.

I'll be thinking of you and yours tomorrow.

D-Rider · #42 Post by **D-Rider** » Mon Mar 02, 2009 11:20 pm

Ian, we may not be able to be physically there with you tomorrow but I know that there will be thoughts and prayers from many of us too as you say your farewell.
I think it's true to say that many of us will also continue to think of you over the days ahead too.
Best wishes to you, Leanne and those other close friends and family who will be missing Ross so much.
Andy

Aladinsaneuk · #43 Post by **Aladinsaneuk** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 6:16 am

my thoughts will be with you today

pete

Falcopops · #44 Post by **Falcopops** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 6:57 am

Having difficulty looking at my kids and putting myself in your place today.

You will get through this and you will move on, doesn't mean you have to forget or anyone else will think any less of you for carrying on.

Dalemac · #45 Post by **Dalemac** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 12:08 pm

thinking of you and your family on this very difficult day.

Dale