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D-Rider · #16 Post by **D-Rider** » Sun Jul 19, 2015 8:39 am

Dalemac wrote:Well, there is no doubt that we will be breaking up now.

This sucks, but at least things are now clearer.

Sorry to hear it Dale - but if it's that clear I guess in the longer term it's probably for the best.

Face forward and soldier on towards new horizons ... you can set your head to that task and eventually your heart will catch up.

Have another drink.

Dalemac · #17 Post by **Dalemac** » Sun Jul 19, 2015 9:01 am

Cheers for the support guys.

It's very painful right now. We have a lot of stuff to sort out like the house, we will both be staying here until it is all sorted, whether that is selling up and moving or one of us taking the ownership and mortgage and buying the other out.

Cant really get the ball rolling until we have spoken to the bank about the possibilities.

Right now I just feel lost, I don't know what to do with myself.

fatboy · #18 Post by **fatboy** » Sun Jul 19, 2015 6:14 pm

Sorry it didn't work out.
Please don't do anything in a hurry just because you feel you need to do something.
I know how lost you feel mate, I also know you won't be stumbling in the wilderness forever.
Nothing can be said that can take away the immediate pain but the pain does lessen slowly.
Take care mate

DavShill · #19 Post by **DavShill** » Sun Jul 19, 2015 6:27 pm

Sorry to hear that dale. Hope you feel better real soon. look forward not back, the future is brighter.

Cheers mate.

robbier6 · #20 Post by **robbier6** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 12:31 pm

oh F**k sorry to hear the sad news Dale, five years is a lot.

can i fill your glass

Dalemac · #21 Post by **Dalemac** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 1:22 pm

Thanks for the messages of support once again guys, it definitely helps!

Willopotomas · #22 Post by **Willopotomas** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 8:28 pm

The bar down the garage is always open. I appreciate it's a fair trek back to Coventry, but you're always welcome round our gaff, pal.

Keep those chins up.. Everything that happens now will have a knock on effect for the future. No matter how small it may seem. Give it time for the dust to settle, pick yourself up, and move on. Life goes on.. Make the most of it.

Dalemac · #23 Post by **Dalemac** » Sat Aug 01, 2015 11:19 am

Well, things are looking up a little!

I have found a nice 2 bed modern coach house that i like and eventually we came to an agreement on price! It needs new carpets and a lick of paint but nothing too drastic.

Already with the same mortgage broker as last time who are handling the mortgage stuff for us (albeit seperately), so hopefully this can be done pretty quickly like last time!

It is a modern coach house on a pretty new estate, there are 4 garages, the biggest being mine then i essentially have the upper level. I would 'own' the entire building (completely detached) freehold and the other 3 garages are leased to neighbouring properties, apparently a pretty common thing nowadays but when we get to solicitor stage i'm sure they will make me aware of any potential issues.

Anyway, virtual champagne all round I think!

Gio · #24 Post by **Gio** » Sat Aug 01, 2015 12:41 pm

Well done, its funny how you make progress from such a dire event.

If it all goes through send me your addy and I'll return you a bottle of champagne.

fatboy · #25 Post by **fatboy** » Sat Aug 01, 2015 5:38 pm

Hope it works out for you mate